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EyesOpen's avatar

After attending the Denver and Lisbon Genspect conferences, meeting you briefly, listening to all the podcasts of Gender: A Wider Lens, reading your book, and being inspired to write my own book, I must give my sincere thanks. You are stedfast in your focus, graceful in a hotbed of controversy, and you remain rational, compassionate and grounded.

This overview of the Lisbon conference is excellent, as was the conference itself.

As a parent of a trans-identified, medicalized adult child, I give voice to parents and also say, don't forget the twenty-something kids who check all the boxes of vulnerability and get swept up into gender ideology and medicalization. These older kids need protections and comprehensive care too.

Just because my kid is over 18 doesn't mean that altering her body to try and fix mental and emotional issues is okay. My daughter's breasts, now gone, were not the problem!

Please keep writing, interviewing diverse individuals on your podcast, and hosting conferences. By the way, where and when in the next conference?

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Gretchen's avatar

Stella this is so well written, thank you. As a parent of a late transitioning son I really appreciate the first paragraph. You really nail the experience of parents of adult transitioners who are now in exile. Such angst and pain and loneliness we feel. Thank you.

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