ROGD boys are more intent emerging one day, very much like cinderella.
They have absorbed themselves into the personality that they are portraying online, that is why they do not want to be interrupted because you’re bringing them into reality which is grim.
But their escape is not teaching them about reality.
Absolutely! I said to my son that until he got experience of work and getting to know others outside his school and Uni friends and online friends he wouldn't know how much he could contribute to the world. I got him to "volunteer" at a local cafe which supported individuals working through drug and alcohol rehabilitation. He was still taking hormones and hid under baggy clothes "boymoder" but introduced himself as his given name. He spent 6 moths there and I am convinced that experience contributed significantly in desisting.
Yep. This describes our senior son to a T. He has told very few people about his trans ID. He told us a year and a half ago. We are aloud in his room. And I do go often. Also, I try to pull him out to bake cookies, watch a show, family dinner, anything that I can think of that I need help with. I don’t do it relentlessly, but regularly. We are also trying to get him into new hobbies. I hope that the longer he can go without medicalization, the better chance he may wake up from the crazy ideology.