A lot of loud and angry ROGD kids have traits of borderline personality disorder
You need a lot of boundaries and self care around someone who has traits of borderline personality and purely fulfilling their demands doesn’t help them and teaches them a wrong way to live in the world
Thank you Stella, that's exactly what we are going through! And we also feel that keeping the boundaries is a huge issue, our kid is expert in triangulation. So many outside who just want to be kind... We've started writing emails to relatives, teachers and others reminding them of our boundaries (while putting our teen in cc). It seems as if it helps when we maintain transparency.
What does ROGD stand for?