Thinking back to our episode from November 2021, I remember how emotional and layered that conversation was. We dove into what happens when an adult comes out as trans—not just for the individual, but for the entire family system around them. For many, it can be a moment of liberation. But for their loved ones, it might feel sudden, confusing, and at times even like a rupture in the relationship.
Sasha and I unpacked the complexity of adult transition—from identity crises to late-in-life self-discovery—and the ripple effects that can follow. We asked hard questions about what might be driving these changes: Is it true freedom? Or is there something else at play, like social influence or unresolved trauma?
One of the themes that’s really stuck with me over time is how fragile the family bond can become during these transitions. We talked a lot about estrangement, rigid boundaries, and the sadness of feeling shut out—especially when communication breaks down. Watching someone radically change can be disorienting for parents, siblings, and partners. Sometimes, families find ways to stay connected. Other times, they’re left picking up pieces they never saw coming.
Looking back, this episode still holds so much relevance. The tension between individual autonomy and family cohesion hasn’t gone away—and neither has the need for empathy, courage, and honest dialogue.
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